High achiever, a Tsinghua University student with a score of 745
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
more reading is the fundamental way to improve personality cultivation.
my friend Lao Chen, who has been a head teacher for nearly 20 years, has been sent to more than ten years in the third year of senior high school alone.
I still remember that after the college entrance examination was over on June 8, I asked him, "how many Tsinghua and Peking Universities can be produced in your class this year?"
Lao Chen shook two fingers, smiled and said, "at least two!"
I joked: "so confident?" Do you know who can be admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University at a glance? "
Old Chen laughs:
"in fact, these children who can be admitted to a good university are a little clever, but if they rely solely on this intelligence, they will not be able to reach the current level."
they generally have their own set of living habits and learning methods, and even their views on learning are completely different from those of ordinary students! You have to accept it. "
the following is the sharing made by a boy in Chen's class who was admitted to Tsinghua University to his brothers and sisters. I feel that I have benefited a lot after reading it.
if there are children in your family who are in primary school, you should see it, because many important habits and mentalities must be cultivated from primary school.
01
handwriting
is likely to keep children out of key high schools, let alone good universities.
now more and more examinations are popularizing "electronic marking", such as the college entrance examination and the high school entrance examination, and in some places even the early entrance examination has begun to be implemented.
but don't think that "e-marking" has lower requirements for writing, on the contrary, it is more stringent.
if a child has irregular writing and poor writing skills since childhood, his answer card is almost a blur when it is scanned into the computer through a scanner.
the marking teacher can't even see it clearly. How can I give you a score?
so practice your calligraphy from an early age.
beautiful and standardized writing can not only make the paper neat, but also speed up the writing speed to a certain extent, so that you can gain an advantage in the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, so that you will not be unable to finish.
02
procrastination
99% of children with poor grades are procrastination!
what can be put off until tomorrow will never be done today, and those who can play first during the holidays will never do their homework first.
the downside of procrastination is that once you form this habit, you will not only procrastinate in study, but also become dillydally in life.
so, how do children usually get procrastination?
Alfred Adler, an Austrian psychologist, has a sentence in the book "Children's Personality Education":
in fact, there are many little things that children can do on their own, such as eating, dressing and wiping their buttocks.
when parents overdo it, their children are less active.
therefore, the first step to change children's procrastination is to be "ruthless" to their children and learn to do their own things.
03
time
the more time you spend on study, the better your grades?
not necessarily!
although some children seem to work very hard, do not go out to play at recess and do their homework at home on weekends, they do not concentrate most of the time. They are just fooling around aimlessly and impatiently.
about 30% and 40% of the average students in a class are basically in this state.
some children never stay up late and play crazy when they are supposed to play, but when they study, they can make a plan in advance, know the total tasks, and arrange what to do first and then what to do.
about 10% of the top students in a class are in this state.
therefore, what determines the achievement is not how much time the child spends studying, but whether the time is "effective" and whether they are able to concentrate.
04
English and Chinese
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04
English English English
for this kind of language subject, the stupidest but most effective way is to read aloud!
because the text has a complete storyline and context, it can help you remember new words quickly.
in addition, after you have read and recited the text, some basic sentence patterns will be imprinted on your mind, and the next time you do a similar problem, you will be able to guess just by feeling.
05
Mathematics
how to learn mathematics?
accurate computing ability is the foundation, and children must be trained well in primary school.
in junior and senior high school, the steps of the topic become more and more, and they are all interrelated. If you miscalculate the results in the first few steps, you will not do it right in any case.
you have to sort out the wrong questions.
the knowledge points and types of questions in mathematics are relatively limited and are bound to be repeated.
as long as you can make sure that the questions you have done this time don't go wrong next time, there will be no problem.
06
carelessness
there are often students around me who say after the exam:
"I actually forgot this knowledge point. I was careless."
is he really careless?
No, he just doesn't have a good grasp of this knowledge and doesn't have a solid foundation.
the so-called "carelessness" and "carelessness" are more like an excuse for self-comfort.
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careful, calm and down-to-earth are essential for a good student.The psychological quality of.
in the college entrance examination, a small math multiple choice question is 5 points. If you are careless and careless, 10 points will be gone, and your ranking in the province may fall behind by thousands!
what's the use of comforting yourself with "carelessness" at this time?
07
starting line
"Let the child win at the starting line" is problematic. In fact, it is a lie designed by a shrewd businessman.
A child's life is not a sprint, but a long marathon.
there is no rush in the marathon, because it is of no use at all. Excessive physical exertion in the first half will affect the later performance.
when I was in primary school, the first student in my class couldn't keep up with the rhythm when he reached junior high school. Instead, the students with mediocre grades caught up.
later, when I was in high school, the first student in junior high school couldn't keep up with the rhythm. Other students slowly caught up.
you see, no one can do it once and for all, and you have to keep working hard if you want to get ahead.
on the other hand, as long as you want to work hard, it's never too late to overtake in any exam.
the only thing you can do is wait for him to grow up and become famous automatically.
08
read many students are worried about the composition, some say that they can't examine the questions, some say they can't describe the methods, and some say the composition of the examination-oriented education is boring.
but in fact, there is only one reason why the composition cannot be written: reading too little!
for example, the same description of a person's standing posture is not elegant, most students will calmly put together the number of words: "her standing posture is not elegant", "her standing posture is not very good-looking".
and those who have read Lu Xun's hometown know a very vivid metaphor:
"she stood there with her hands on her hips, like a thin compass!"
so you see, if you read less extracurricular books, you can't even describe the most basic "station" in your life. How can you write a good composition?
09
in the future
students always ask
"since you may not be able to find a job even if you go to college, why bother to go to college?" How good would it be to enter society early? "
Yes, you can't find a job even if you go to college, and many college students are not as good as migrant workers who carry bricks after graduation.
what does this mean? Is college useless?
wrong! This can only show that you didn't study hard in high school and got into an unclassy university! Then the university doesn't study hard and dawdle around all day!
No matter how good the university is, it will become scum if you don't study hard; no matter how bad it is, you can find a decent job even if you work hard.
Don't complain that your parents are not powerful, and don't complain that society is too dark. It's just that you don't work hard!
10
Competition
although I was reluctantly admitted to Tsinghua University, I found that I was almost at the bottom of my class after I checked in.
the boy with the best grades in the class gets up early every day to recite English.
it took me a long time to realize that the most terrible thing is not that your competitors are smarter than you, but that they are smarter and harder than you!
so, what kind of capital do we have not to work hard?