It's really important to be with good people.

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one is to be with progressive people.

when I first started learning yoga, I always liked to practice with people who were very motivated.

for example, many people are chatting and playing with their mobile phones before class, but they have already started warm-up exercises, and I follow them.

for example, they will try their best to try what the teacher asks them to do in class, and I will try it slowly.

for example, they will ask the teacher for advice after class. I have learned a lot from standing by some specific action details.

most of the time, people influence each other.

if the people around you can be lazy and perfunctory, then you will become like this.

on the other hand, if the people around you always set strict standards for themselves, then you will be driven by them to become more and more diligent and excellent.

there is a saying: "with diligent people, you will not be lazy." When you are with people who procrastinate, you will not be positive. "

maybe you will have some pressure when you are with motivated people, and even you have to challenge and surpass yourself constantly.

but you should always know that only when there is pressure, there is motivation. If you relax easily, it will be difficult to make progress and improvement.

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second, spend time with optimistic people.

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once, I knew an acquaintance.

every time I talk to her, she always complains about her work, family disharmony, even bad weather, and even all kinds of bad luck.

at the beginning, I will give her some words of encouragement and comfort.

but for a long time, I found that her negative energy not only did not decrease at all, but made me become full of negative energy before I knew it.

in life

A person who accidentally steps on a puddle and complains all day will not be very lucky.

A person who misses the last night bus and laughs that it is a rare experience is usually not too unlucky.

everything has two sides.

also lost five yuan, encountered a rainy day, accidentally fell, pessimists will tell you that they have bad luck again,

but optimists will tell you that this is a piece of cake, and even find lucky places in it.

with optimistic people, your life will be illuminated by the sun every day, and they will bring you more positive energy.

but with pessimistic people, your life is covered with gloom every day, and they will only make you gradually lose your sense of happiness.

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third, be with kind people.

there is a saying: "cleverness is a gift, but kindness is a choice."

sometimes, when you are with good people, even if there are great conflicts and contradictions, you will never be maliciously attacked or retaliated.

but with evil people, even if there is the slightest disagreement with each other, it will be infinitely magnified and make you restless.

there is such a story.

A man quarreled with his neighbor over a trifle.

one day, a man met a fairy. The fairy took him aside and said to him, "whatever wish you have, you can say it, and I will satisfy it for you, but no matter what you wish, your neighbor will get double."

when the man heard this, he couldn't help thinking to himself, "if I want a house, my neighbor will get two. If I want 100 million, my neighbor will get 200 million." How can it go on like this? how can he be better off than me? "

so he finally made a wish to the immortal: "I want you to blind one of my eyes!"

between people, they are all mutual.

when you are with a well-intentioned person, at least your nature will not go bad, and you can slowly learn to understand and forgive.

but when you are with a person with a bad heart, it is easy to entangle each other, not to let go of each other, and eventually hurt each other.

04

in fact, it really matters what kind of person you are with.

because the people around you will always exert an imperceptible influence on you, and will continue to change you for worse or better over time.

when you are with enterprising people, you will not be lazy and will strive for a better yourself.

when you are with optimistic people, you will rarely be pessimistic and your state of mind will get better and better.

when you are with good people, you will not become evil, but will only make your heart softer and more loving.

sometimes, you can tell what a person looks like by the person who is closest to him, who is the closest to him, and even who is often with him.

there is a saying: "those who are close to red are red, those who are close to ink are black."

there must be some similarity between a group of people before they come together. Even if they are different, they will assimilate and influence each other because they have been together for a long time.

whatever kind of person you want to be, try to get close to such a person, and try to make yourself like this first.

you always have to believe that

butterflies attract butterflies, but flies also attract flies.

excellent people are always attracted to each other, and mediocre people are always attracted to each other.

May you be a better person for the rest of your life.