No heart, no heart, no tiredness to live.

Zeng Guofan once said: "there is no wisdom, things come to adapt, the future does not welcome, at that time is not miscellaneous, neither love nor love."

Let bygones be bygones of what has happened, and forget about what hasn't happened yet. What you get, accept gladly: what you lose, let it go with the wind.

this is the best way to live.

Don't worry about everything, look down on everything, heartless and heartless, so that you can live without tiredness.

01

worry too much, lose more

I have read such a story:

there was a camel walking in the desert and was suddenly hit by a small piece of glass.

the camel was so angry that he raised his foot and kicked the piece of glass hard, only to make a deep cut in the soles of his foot, bleeding.

the angry and painful camel had to limp, with blood dripping from its feet on the desert.

the strong smell of blood attracted vultures and wolves to chase. In order to escape, the camel had to drag its injured foot and run wild, only to slip into the vicinity of the man-eating ant nest and was finally eaten as a delicacy by a mass of dark man-eating ants.

the camel regretted it very much before he died, so why should he argue with a small piece of glass?

in life, many people will, like this camel, haggle over trifles and end up losing more.

they don't want to suffer at all, and they have to get the upper hand everywhere when they get along with others.

have been said by others, no matter what, you have to take it back; if you give a little, you want to pay back.

eyes are full of trifles, always haggling over little things.

in fact, if you haggle with your leader, you will lose the opportunity for promotion;

if you haggle with your friends, you will lose your pure friendship;

if you haggle with your lover, you will lose the temperature of love.

there is a saying in Cai Gentan: "if you sleep eight feet at night and eat two liters a day, there is no need to haggle."

when you live a lifetime, you will inevitably encounter some unpleasant things. If you care about it blindly, you will only lose more.

instead of haggling over pennies, try to tolerate

people who know how to tolerate. They seem to suffer losses, but in fact they are the real winners.

as the saying goes, "leave a line in everything so that we can see each other in the future."

to leave room for others is to accumulate popularity for yourself.

people who are really wise know how to ignore it.

only if you don't care about life, you can get more.

02

think too much, toil

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there are always some people who are particularly sensitive, and a casual look, a word, or an action can make them restless and wishful thinking.

the mood goes up and down every day, and I can't calm down.

think of a cartoon by Wu Zhihong, in which the heroine Ah Hua is a sensitive girl.

when she was reporting to her boss at the meeting, she accidentally saw her boss frowning and began to feel uneasy. She thought, is it because she said something wrong and upset her boss?

Ah Hua was very upset about this until her boss said to her, "this week's data is very good. Keep going." She was relieved.

when she saw her colleagues drinking milk tea, she felt that her colleagues did not like her, and that she was isolated and felt particularly uncomfortable.

but after work, my colleague asked her to eat her favorite hot pot.

the material that Sister Zhang asked her to help translate, she forgot for a moment and didn't finish it in time, so she offered to apologize.

when Sister Zhang said, "it's all right, no need." She was even more frightened. She thought Sister Zhang must be disappointed in her.

after struggling for a long time, she sent Sister Zhang a Wechat explanation and apology.

unexpectedly, Sister Zhang told her that she had recently hired an intern and handed over the translation work to the intern.

is there such a person around you?

when you see others whispering, they wonder if they are speaking ill of themselves;

if they don't reply in time, they guess if they don't take them seriously;

others take a look at themselves and wonder if there is dirt on their faces.

people who are too sensitive tend to think too much and make their lives very tired.

other people's scratching the surface can put them in deep trouble and can't extricate themselves.

there is a kind of tiredness called thinking too much.

people are inherently small, and once too many things are stuffed, they will not be able to bear it.

only by putting aside your distractions can you be relaxed and happy.

because all happiness comes from our hearts.

03

too many desires and more troubles

Aristotle said, "A slave is a man whose desire triumphs over reason."

when one has too many desires, troubles will follow.

the greatest sorrow in life is not getting too little, but wanting too much.

there was a rich man who was so restless and restless that he felt that he was seriously ill.

taking a lot of medicine is of no avail.

later, he met a famous doctor in seclusion.

after learning about his symptoms, the famous doctor said, "it's easy to treat the disease. All you have to do is go to a quiet beach every day and lie down for 30 minutes for a month."

although confused, the rich man did it anyway.

the rich man is usually very busy and has never been so relaxed. He closed his eyes and listened to the sound of waves crashing against the rocks and seagulls rising and falling one after another.Call.

seems to be in Xanadu, completely let go of the intrigues of the mall, no longer have any desire. He felt comfortable all over, and all his restlessness and restlessness were swept away.

A month later, the rich man really got better.

in fact, the illness of the rich is heart disease, and it is the panic tortured by desire.

in economics, there is a law called the law of diminishing marginal utility. It means that the more people do the same thing, the less satisfaction it brings to people.

in the end, the more you get, the more you want.

do you have moments like this?

when I have no money, I just want to be rich, and when I have money, I want more money.

when I don't have a house, I want to buy a house, I want a big house, and when I have a big house, I want a bigger one.

then, more troubles fill my heart and make me out of breath.

our desires are proportional to our troubles. As the desire expands, so does the worry.

with less desire, happiness in the world is full of stars; with more desires, troubles are like sand on the earth.

there is a saying in Zengguang Xian Wen: "A thousand hectares of fertile land can only eat three meals a day, and ten thousand rooms in Guangsha can only sleep three feet."

people seem to have a lot of things in this life, but not many things are really useful.

learn to subtract from life, and life will be better.

the heart is simple, the world is simple, the troubles are less, and people are happy.

04

if you are heartless and heartless, you will not be tired.

there is nothing to worry about in the world.

most of the time, we feel too tired because we find it ourselves.

I have read such a sentence:

people who are heartless and heartless are not really confused, but live thoroughly.

will not haggle over things and understand that they will take a step back;

will not be wishful thinking, knowing that everything is easy to happen;

is not controlled by desire and knows how to cherish the present.

have a good mindset, look down on everything, be calm and calm, so that you can not be tired.

May you and I be a heartless, simple and happy person for the rest of my life.