The mouth of parents determines the fate of a family.

there is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "one word rejuvenates the country, one word loses the country."

language is so powerful that a word can affect the rise and fall of a country.

by the same token, in a family, the mouth of parents affects the lifeblood of the whole family and determines the direction of a family.

parents who are good at warm words tend to have a happy family and beauty; while cold-spoken parents, the family is like an ice cellar, making people chill.

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talking parents are the blessing of their children's life

it is often said that parents are their children's first teachers and the first college for their children to acquire knowledge and know the world.

"Yan's Family motto" also emphasizes: "Life is young and spiritual; when you have grown up, you should think about relaxation; if you must teach early, do not miss the opportunity."

the knowledge learned in childhood often dominates a person's life, just like a house, if the foundation is not solid, it will collapse.

A mother sought the help of a master and cried about her child's many problems.

the master asked, "have you copied any documents?"

the woman replied, "photocopied."

the master asked, "if there is a mistake in the copy, will you modify the original or the copy?"

the woman replied, "of course it's the original."

the Master said slowly, "Yes, all the faults of the child are copied from the parents. If you want to change the child, first correct it from yourself."

A famous educator once said, "you can be whatever you want your child to be."

for children, the best education is the words and deeds of their parents.

Children are the inheritance of parents from generation to generation, the future of a family, and the hope of the motherland.

to be a bright and positive parent, there will be a piece of sunshine in the child's heart.

on the contrary, if parents complain and vent their negative energy everywhere, their children will be shrouded in haze and plant dark seeds in their hearts, which will affect their future life.

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parents' mouths affect the lives of their children

kind words are warmer than cloth, and hurtful words are more piercing than spear halberds.

in life, we are familiar with this truth, but we say warm words to others and evil words to our loved ones.

Lin Huiyin, a famous national talented woman, has great attainments in literature and architecture, and has many suitors.

but in the bottom of her heart, she does not accept herself, but often feels painful and inferiority complex.

in her childhood, her mother was ignored by her father, life was aggrieved, and her heart was full of resentment.

Mother often complains in front of her, complains about God, complains about her husband, complains about her own fate, and conveys negative energy to Lin Huiyin all the time.

this kind of negative energy affects her whole life, even when she grows up, as long as the similar picture reappears, she will indulge in the pain of the past.

as the saying goes, "knife sores are easy to go away, but evil words are hard to get rid of."

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the words and deeds of parents have an imperceptible influence on the personality of their children all the time.

Cai Yuanpei, president of Peking University, said in his book the cultivation of the Chinese people: it is not academic achievement that determines a child's life, but a sound personality cultivation.

every word a parent says is powerful enough to affect a child's life.

therefore, to cultivate warm children, start with kind words.

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parents can talk, and families are more prosperous

as the ancients said, "A word is more important than a treasure; a three-inch tongue is better than a million masters."

the power of language is not to be underestimated. Parents can speak in order to raise a talking child.

deeds speak louder than words, and parents' words and deeds will be firmly remembered by their children.

parents know how to be grateful, say kind words, and often say words of gratitude, so that their children will know how to respect others.

parents are full of bad words and often add bad words to others, and their children will be deeply affected and continue this kind of "evil".

after scientific research and investigation, the more prosperous, happy and harmonious families are, the communication between families is like a warm spring breeze, which makes people feel more comfortable.

on the contrary, the more unhappy and less well-off families are, they are often full of quarrels and criticisms.

therefore, talking well is not only a compulsory course for parents, but also the best feng shui for a family.

"speak well" says: "the words in your mouth are your luck and your life."

if you want to change your luck, start by talking well.

the child who can talk will benefit all his life, and the child who can talk will have a happy life.