The way you stay at home has exposed the feng shui of your life.

Zhihu has a question: how can you make a qualitative change in your life?

A highly praised answer is: make good use of your time at home.

"people stand because of their homes, and they have to keep them." People support each other and feel heaven and earth. "

people spend almost 2/3 of their lives at home. So it's really important how you spend it at home.

A person's eyebrows and eyes can be camouflaged and smiles can lie, but ta can't stay at home.

so in a sense, what you look like at home is what your soul looks like.

01

your room, hide your fengshui

your room, hide your fengshui.

some time ago, my roommate moved out, which is said to have been fired by the company.

I'm a little confused: after all, every time I met him downstairs, he was dressed in a suit and tie.

but I soon understood why he was fired:

I met this roommate several times in my room, each time looking slovenly and sleepy.

once, I went to borrow something from him, and the moment he opened the door, there was a pungent smell in the room.

on the floor, sweat-stained white shirts and suit trousers were curled up scattered; on the table, oil stains from takeout food made the white table mottled.

on the messy bed, there are several piles of brand-new MBA review materials.

there is a saying in the Book of Rites: "A gentleman is careful to be alone."

it is difficult for a person to go long-term if he only floats on the surface and shows it to others, without anything deeply rooted in his heart that he or she really wants to stick to.

after all, really high-level people live exquisitely in front of people and live well after them.

I have a female friend who is now the chief financial officer of a company.

every weekend, while we are still sleeping, she has got up early and finished a whole set of yoga; while we are still thinking about where to play, the flowers and plants in her house have been half trimmed.

when I am in a bad mood, I always like to run to her house, not because her house is large and luxuriously decorated, but because the orderly cleanliness allows me to quickly calm down and think about the meaning of life.

some people say: "the appearance of staying at home alone is most likely to expose the life level of ta."

I strongly agree.

how many people are exquisite, clean and decent in front, but sloppy and lazy and muddle along behind them;

how many people, who are beautiful white-collar elites outside, have become messy "room" beauties who do not even like to wash their personal clothes at home.

they do not know that there is a high level called "exquisite in front and exquisite after others";

they do not understand that the self-discipline of staying at home alone is the top feng shui.

people who are really good are the same outside and at home.

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the time you spend at home is the best value-added period.

someone says, "if you want to know whether a person is good or not, look at what ta does at home."

it is true.

it is also the weekend. Some people stay up all night playing games, while others are reading, writing and fitness yoga.

is also a holiday. Some people do nothing and waste their time all day. However, some people carry their backpacks and take a walk-and-go trip.

the more I grow up, the more I find that

the difference between people is not in education or intelligence, but in the appearance of staying at home.

some time ago, my friend Chenchen posted a circle of friends:

"successfully landed, I finally lived up to my efforts." I was shocked when the picture was a notice of the result of the judicial examination.

my friend works in a Fortune 500 company and is the absolute backbone of the company. he is so busy at work on weekdays that he can even find time to prepare for the judicial examination.

until a few days ago, when we happened to talk about this problem, we didn't know:

it turned out that she had stayed at home for half a year because of the epidemic, but she had not been idle at all.

running exercise, planting flowers and grass, reading, reading newspapers, cooking yoga. Plus regular study for 8 hours a day.

I asked her, "aren't you tired?"

she smiled and replied: "I enjoy the tiredness of my busy body compared to the tiredness of doing nothing."

hearing this, I finally understand why the gap between me and her has widened over the years.

while I am still obsessing about where to play on weekends and where to go on vacation, my friends are reading, studying and improving themselves.

while I am still complaining about the plot in movies and TV dramas and feeling sorry for the idol in the spotlight, my friend has won the judicial exam.

she told me in action that the most terrible thing for a person to live in the world is not physical busyness and fatigue, but mental emptiness and boredom.

and learning to make use of your time at home is a great soft power.

I suddenly remembered a line from "the first half of my Life":

people, you can't be too idle. You have to have something to do. You can not only relieve worries and boredom, but also give yourself a hand at a critical moment.

Yes, a good life should not be too idle.

and staying at home is your best value-added period.

03

the way you look at home is your mental appearance

there is a saying in Cai Gentan: "most of the festival meaning of the blue sky and day comes from the leaks in the darkroom."

Among them, "dark room leak" refers to being alone at home.

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so the gentleman is careful to be alone, because it is impossible to pretend to be at home alone, which is the spiritual appearance nurtured by years of habit and months of experience.

in this era, appearance can be reshaped and spirit can be reborn, but only the appearance of spirit is in daily practice.

I have many friends who like Chen Daoming.

I didn't understand it at first, until one day, I read his "do something useless", which describes him at home:

I have played the piano well since I was a child. Love to love. As long as I am at home, I play for two or three hours a day, and for four or five hours when I am in high spirits.

after entering middle age, I became obsessed with painting. I had no school and no rules. Grind the ink, spread the Xuan paper, hold the paintbrush in hand, then open the map, recall the places you have been filming over the years, and then splash ink on the landscape.

now I like to copy ancient books such as the moral Classic with a brush. It's interesting to read it silently while copying.

this is called by Mr. Ji Xianlin as "competent for a professor at Peking University." he is modest and elegant in front of him, and he never forgets to practice self-discipline after he is born.

and this may be his personal charm.

do not bully the darkroom, do not deserve the leakage of the room, repair both inside and outside, and be the same on the inside and outside.

writer Liu Liangcheng said: "the home in one's heart is not just a house of one's own, but the life spent in this house for years."

Yes, the mind of self-discipline at home is positive, and the mind of staying at home is wasted.

therefore, high-level people often know how to make good use of their time at home and tidy up their mental appearance.

Yan Geling keeps writing for 6 hours at home every day;